It was a very different Father's Day for me this year.
After hearing that Tim Russert had suddenly passed away on Friday afternoon. And after watching the special coverage on NBC, I really have a new appreciation for fatherhood, and time.
I don't know Tim Russert. Sure, I've seen him on TV like the rest of you. But from what I've heard, he was a really great guy. It has been a time of reflection for me as I watched his colleagues remembering him -- his faith, his belief in prayer, how important family is, and how very important fatherhood is. It really made me think.
I'm a very sentimental kind of guy. Ok, a softie. But I'm certainly not embarrassed by that. Quite the opposite. I'm proud of it. So when I hear of a great person that has passed on, it really makes me stop and think -- what can I learn from this person? You know, we only have so many days here on earth. And we have a choice. We can go through the motions and watch our days slip away, one day at a time. Or...we can make a difference. I'm choosing (more than ever) to make a difference -- at home, with my wife and kids, at work, and in life-in-general.
I'm going to do some simple things, like say "hi" to people that I don't know [I already do, but I'm going to do more of it.] I'm going to care more about the people that I work with. [I already care about them very much, but I'm going to care for them at a deeper level.] I'm going to love my wife and kids on a deeper level too. I get wrapped up in the trivial crap too many times during the day. Now, I'm going for the gusto. I'm going to try very hard to ignore the little, silly stuff that doesn't matter. I'm going to focus on the positive and hope that my attitude shines through. I'm going to have even more chats with God and ask him to really keep me on track.
I had a really great Father's Day weekend. We spent Saturday and today at the lake. My wife and the boys took me to breakfast yesterday in Shipshewana (I've sang that town's praises many times here.) Breakfast was excellent and then it was off to do some shopping. The sun was shining, the boys did their best to not look bored, and we had a great time going from shop to shop. Then it was back to the lake for some swimming and golf-cart rides, a campfire and a double dose of s'mores. How can you top that?
Marigolds on the corner of the deck.
The boys brought their old bikes to the lake this year. They've shown a good deal of responsibility with them. So far, so good!
The boys (one will turn 8 on Friday and one who is 13) have all but outgrown this table. But I can't part with it. As long as I have any say-so, it will stay on the deck forever.
A great cookbook I got at the library. Tons of easy, good-looking recipes.
A sneek peek inside. Click for a larger image.
Today was chocolate chip muffins (made by the boys) and then a trip into the town of Sturgis, Michigan. We needed a few things from WalMart and the Dollar Tree. Then...by a stroke of bad luck, traffic was horrible and I could not make a left turn out of the parking lot. So...I backed up and turned right. Then a left into the next parking lot, around the building and there it was: the Goodwill store. Not able to pass it up, we went in. Twenty-three dollars later, we were back in the car with a Kenmore sewing machine and a copy of Disney's Haunted Mansion (in VHS no less). The sewing machine was in perfect condition. Perfect as in it was still packed in the Styrofoam and original box. How cool!
Great gifts:
My Father's Day cards (from the boys and my wife); latest goodies from Levenger; fabric finds; freebie tote bag from Martha Stewart Living; new sewing machine from Goodwill. It just doesn't get any better than this!
The machine was the same model my mother-in-law had while she was living with us. Nothing fancy at all, but a simple, hardworking machine. I have been looking for that model on eBay for quite some time but could not find one that I liked. I brought my new baby home (complete with owner's manual), tweaked the bobbin tension a bit, and I'm happy to report that it runs like a top. Beautiful stitches. What a very cool, very unexpected Father's Day gift. [Thanks Honey. It's the last thing I need, I know, but I love it.]
To Tim Russert's wife and son and all his colleagues: my deepest, deepest, sympathy to you. He was a legend. In the truest sense.
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